How to Improve your Emotional and Mental Health?
Getting caught up in life’s day-to-day demands, whether work or family obligations, is easy. As a result, it’s common for people to neglect their emotional needs and well-being. But there are many ways we can improve our emotional health and keep ourselves feeling happier and less stressed daily. Here are 12 simple things you can do to start a care routine:
Practice positive affirmations.
Positive affirmations are statements you tell yourself to build positive thoughts about yourself. These can help you feel better about yourself, more confident, and in control of your life.
Keep your favorite affirmations on your refrigerator or bathroom mirror to help you stay optimistic about who you are.
Let go of Anger.
Anger is a normal emotion but can harm your health. It’s important to understand that anger is not the same as rage, and it’s not always an indication you’re out of control or dangerous.
Anger is expressed in frustration, communicating displeasure, or even expressing pain. Some people use anger to protect themselves from their fears or insecurities by becoming aggressive.
As with any other emotion, you need to learn how to manage your feelings before they get out of control—anger will eventually turn into resentment if you don’t deal with it right at the right time! Here are some important tips on how you can do this:
Think through issues logically before reacting emotionally (i.e., don’t let others’ actions provoke an angry response).
Manage stress by addressing it head-on.
Identify the source of your stress. Stress is a natural part of life, but it can be debilitating if you don’t learn how to deal with it effectively. Is it from work? Are you having trouble sleeping? Do you have too many responsibilities on top of your job?
Take a few deep breaths and try not to get worked up over little things that don’t matter in the grand scheme of things. Then, once you’ve identified the source(s) of your stress, take some time for yourself so that it won’t continue affecting everything else in your life negatively. This might mean taking five minutes away from work. Maybe sit down and eat lunch outside so there aren’t any distractions! Either way works just fine!
Acknowledge your shortcomings and forgive yourself for them.
It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay not to be perfect. And you must forgive yourself for these shortcomings because self-forgiveness will help you become a more effective caretaker of your loved ones and yourself.
Find happiness in small moments.
In every situation, look for the positive. Then, look for the silver lining and see how it can be a catalyst for growth.
Also, look at everyone (including yourself) with a positive lens: everyone has good qualities that make them unique individuals; everyone brings something—even if it is just their presence—to this world; everyone deserves love and compassion because they are human beings like us! So take time to appreciate these traits instead of focusing solely on what’s wrong with people/things/situations in daily life.
Create a more fulfilling daily routine.
The first thing you can do is craft a daily routine that works for you. For example, some of us need an early wake-up call, and others prefer to sleep in. Some of us like to get up at the same time every day and go through our morning routine step by step, while others prefer to feel what they want to do with each new day.
The important thing is that your routine meets your needs and gives you room for creativity and growth—not just because it’s another item on someone else’s list of “how-to be better.” If there’s something from this list that resonates with you but doesn’t fit into your current life, try adding just one small element at a time until it becomes part of your everyday life.
Take care of your physical health by eating better and getting more sleep (which helps support emotional health too).
Sleeping well is a crucial part of emotional self-care. An extra hour or two of sleep can significantly impact your mood, concentration, and energy levels—not to mention your physical health. The National Sleep Foundation recommends that adults get seven to nine hours of sleep per night for good health and performance.
If you’ve tried everything from counting sheep to relaxing music but still can’t fall asleep after 30 minutes or so at night, consider taking some time during the day to relax and unwind or starting a self-care night routine. Take a short walk outside in nature or read something soothingly calming before bed.
Take good care of yourself!
You may have heard the term “self-care” before, but what does it mean? Self-care is taking steps to care for yourself—your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. This can include healthy eating, exercise; getting enough sleep; doing things you enjoy.
Spending time with people you enjoy, doing things you’re good at (like singing along to karaoke on Friday nights), and trying new experiences that are good for you.
Taking care of yourself doesn’t just help keep your mood up—it also helps prevent burnout from overexertion when life gets overwhelming! So, try some care activities to help you live a happy, productive life.
Sometimes it’s hard to put our needs first when we have others we want to care for. However, these care practices will help us be the best versions of ourselves, giving us a better chance to be there for our friends and family.
If you want ideas on starting a self-care routine, check out my Self-Care Sunday Series Part 1 below!